A Day in The Life Of Tree

Ps 1:3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

Does Buying in Bulk Really Save You Money? June 30, 2008

Filed under: Money Matters, Uncategorized — Sylvia @ 11:33 pm
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I’m a bulk shopper (when I can afford to be) and sometimes I wonder if I’m actually saving money when I go to Sam’s Club.  Since today is Money Saving Monday I went on a little investigation to see what others are saying about bulk shopping.  I came across this article by Matthew Pryor from Sound Mind Investing (a Christian newsletter) and here are his findings as he compared the two (bulk vs grocery store).
By Matthew Pryor
© Sound Mind Investing | March 2006

The idea of saving money by buying in greater quantities is also the appeal made by warehouse clubs. These huge member-only warehouses claim to offer great savings, partly due to the fact that you’re buying in bulk (and partly due to the no-frills environment). But are the savings more than offset by the fact that I may buy more than needed? And is buying in bulk really a money-saving strategy? I went on a crusade to find out!

I started my quest at Sam’s, the dominant warehouse club locally. I thoroughly enjoy walking down aisle upon giant aisle of everything from tube socks to hot sauce. I mean really, who couldn’t use a 48-bottle case of Tabasco? With apparent bargains all around, it’s hard not to love the clubs.

I decided to primarily focus my research on goods one would buy regularly from the grocery store. Though it wasn’t mandatory for the items to be food, the food items I did pick were in a quantity that would not quickly perish. So with my clipboard in hand, I wrote down the prices of 175 items at Sam’s, and then went to two of our leading grocery chains, Kroger and Meijer, and wrote down the prices for those same 175 items.

Most of the time, I was able to compare items of the same container size. In other words, if a package of four 32-ounce bottles of Mott’s Apple Juice could be purchased at Sam’s, I priced the same Mott’s Apple Juice, but in a single 32-ounce bottle from the two grocery stores. When this was not possible, I wrote down the price of a comparable size. After crunching the numbers, I found that a great majority of the items were indeed cheaper at Sam’s. On average, the savings amounted to 31%, more than enough to easily offset the $35-45 annual membership fee.

To see if there were patterns to where the savings would be found, I broke down the data into categories: baby, can goods, cereal/bread, cooking/baking, dairy, frozen, health/hygiene, household (cleansers, paper and plastic products, etc.), snacks, soup/sauce, and other (peanut butter, stuffing, salad dressing, etc.). The big winners: cereal/bread, cooking/baking, snacks, and other averaged nearly 40% savings. Still not impressed? Buy some raisins, syrup, bottled water, and sandwich bags and you can save an average of 66%.

And it doesn’t stop there. You can rack up even more savings by buying generics in bulk, where I found savings of up to 83% on items like aspirin and hand sanitizer.

So how does this translate into your daily life? It may never have crossed your mind that your child’s glass of OJ could cost you a quarter more than necessary. You shrug off a quarter? If you’re determined to get Junior’s daily dose of vitamin C in, you would be shrugging off about $90 a year.

Or, how about this—you can save 20 cents a bowl on Raisin Bran. What’s 20 cents? For a family of four that has a bowl every weekday, it’s $208 a year. That’s $208 that could be paying off a debt (and the high interest rate that comes with it).

“I don’t eat cereal,” you say. Oh no? Do you eat chicken? Do you like snacks? Do you use tooth paste? Hopefully you answered “yes” to at least one of these questions, in which case you can save an average of 38%. (And none of these examples include the additional savings on sales tax!) To take the study a step further, I compared the Sam’s price of an item to the cheapest current sales price available at the grocery chains. The warehouse club still wins, saving you 22%.

Savings aren’t necessarily limited to groceries. In his book, Saving Money Any Way You Can, Mike Yorkey cites warehouse clubs as being great places to shop for small appliances, car tires and prescription eyewear. And I personally have saved money when buying books, computer software, and even flowers for my wife. However, there are a few things to keep in mind when shopping at a wholesale club:

• Not everything at warehouse clubs is sold in bulk. You can buy a single gallon of milk or one ink jet printer. In those instances, the savings may not amount to much, so be sure to compare prices first.

• Strangely, some items cost more in bulk (and even at the grocery store, I came across a number of items that cost more per unit of measurement when bought in the bigger container).

• The variety is limited.

• I surveyed items that wouldn’t perish quickly. You’re not saving money if the product goes to waste.

• You might save some money buying items you use less often, like cat shampoo, but you’d be tying up money that would probably be better used elsewhere.

• Depending on how you categorize items, you may experience different category savings as some items could be in more than one category.

• When the grocery chains came out ahead, often times it was because there was a sale. Their advantage can disappear when the promotions end. Furthermore, keep in mind that grocery prices are regional—what’s cheaper for me in Kentucky may cost more where you live, or vice versa.

• You have to account for storage of these items.

Even still, warehouse clubs are a great place to find really good savings. But to truly win at the cost-cutting game, you’ll need to investigate the pricing patterns of the chains in your area. And you never know, you might bump into me one of these days—I’ll be the one with the clipboard and case of Tabasco. End

Matthew Pryor is SMI’s Director of Operations and a contributing writer and researcher.
 

This and That June 27, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — Sylvia @ 3:56 am

Financial Seminar

For the next few days I won’t be able to blog because hubby and I will be attending a 3-day financial seminar in New York City.  I would normally be excited to spend some time with hubby to discuss “grown up” stuff but the seminars are very long (9am-6pm) so there won’t be much time for conversation.  Hopefully I will learn something I can share with you, my dear reader.

Edit my posts

Please forgive my grammatical errors on past posts.  I usually type really quick and try to make changes when I can.  I hope the parents of my old students are not reading the posts. I will edit all my posts soon!  :)

I’ll see you in blogland in a few days.  Take care!

 

 

Weight Watcher’s Key Lime Pie June 26, 2008

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This pie is absolutely delicious!  Although my mom is no longer on Weight Watchers she still makes this pie for the holidays.  I believe its 3 points per serving.  Now I know that its not organic but it is a delicious sweet that is low in calories and its quite refreshing:)

Ingredients

Directions

  1. In a large bowl, dissolve gelatin in boiling water.
  2. Stir in yogurt with wire whisk.
  3. Fold in whipped topping with wooden spoon.
  4. Spread in crust.
  5. Refrigerate for at least 2 hours.
 

My Sam’s Club Nightmare June 24, 2008

Filed under: Autism, Family/Motherhood — Sylvia @ 9:17 pm
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Yesterday was extremely stressful…

My husband wanted me to have the kids ready to leave so that we can shoot to Sam’s Club immediately after pulls up (to avoid the store closing on us).No Problem…So I thought:(  When it was time to leave my son had a little meltdown, nothing too severe, we could handle it…So I thought again.   My husband and I took both cars to ensure that we had enough space for groceries and car seats.  All the kids wanted to ride with daddy even baby girl so I packed them all in daddy’s car and went into mine to follow behind. 

We arrived at Sam’s Club and my husband told me that my son had been crying and jumping up and down the whole ride (he knows how to get out of the car seat…all of them).  My son’s cry is not the typical kid’s cry it is extremely high pitch and annoying it sounds as if someone is beating him with a steel bar or something( I think it comes from him being non verbal and not utilizing his voice).  So my husband was frazzled because he just came home from work and had to deal with his meltdown for thirty minutes nonstop. 

My husband and I were extremely skeptical about going shopping with my son in this state(knowing that a meltdown can literally last for HOURS, once it lasted for about 7 hours) and having to deal with the other two young-ins but we came this far so thought we would give it a try.  WHY, oh why did we do that!  My son was so inconsolable, frantic, and anxious that in the middle of our attempt to go food shopping we just stopped and left extremely frustrated and to be quite honest EMBARRASSED.  So many shoppers were just staring at us.  Now I usually don’t mind people talking about me but I have a weak side when it comes to how people view me as a parent when they don’t have a clue about my struggles.  They were just watching us as if we stole this child from someone or like we have been abusing him.  I honestly felt like screaming that he was autistic just so that I wouldn’t have to deal with the judgemental stares.  To put the icing on the cake after we left the store it was difficult to get him to go back in the car (the kid is like the Incredible Hulk) and once in the car he kept trying to escape.   I know what some of you are thinking, ” A good spanking would fix that right or maybe time out,.”  Rest assure it doesn’t work.  He can’t even comprehend some of the things we are telling him and the meltdowns make it worse.  Well we finally got him in the car and I followed them.  After a short while I see the back door opening to my husband’s car on a major highway (my son was opening the door).  I was frantic!  I beeped the horn like a crazy woman and yelled out of the window telling him to pull over.  He pulled the car over quickly and was so upset over what could have happened that he calmly told me to take our son and put him in my car out of fear of what he might do or say out of anger and frustration.  So I obliged and quietly put our son in my car and strapped him up tightly and went home. 

I want all those who read this blog to be careful of how you judge people when their kids are having so called “tantrums” because you never know the true situation of that child or parent.  I use to be like that sitting on my high horse saying if that were my child I would do this and that.  Well I take that back now because looking at my son you would never know his diagnosis because he doesn’t have physical features of a child with special needs.  You would probably think he was a spoiled child as someone has told me before.  Well he’s not and unless you walk a mile in my shoe (I take that back…a few feet) you will NEVER know how difficult it really is to have a child with special needs. 

Through all that and more I thank God for him and I truly love him with my whole heart.   I also thank God for my wonderful husband, a man that is noble and willing to stick with it through hard times.

Trivia Question

Question: What is the rate of divorce amongst parents of children with autism?

Answer: 80% end in divorce

It is a tiresome battle but we (my hubby and I will endure)!

God Bless

Tree

 

Amusement Park Savings June 23, 2008

Filed under: Money Matters — Sylvia @ 5:03 pm
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Some friends from my church and I thought it would be nice to take our children to the amusement park together.  With the economy burning holes in pockets we thought it would be wise to contact the group sales to see what the price differential would be if we were to gather everyone as a group and go.  Let me tell you there was a great difference in price.  If we were to pay at the gate and meetup at the park the price would’ve been $32.99 + tax for adults and $26.99+ tax for children and 2 and under are free.  With the group rates we have to mail the group payment in two weeks prior to going to the park.  That might seems like a hassle but it was well worth it.  The group rate was $19.95+ tax per person and two and under are free.  That’s a savings of $13.04 per adults and $7.04 per child!  Worth the trouble, right!  Below are some other money saving tips for amusement parks

 

Saturdays are parks’ busiest days, so many offer discounts for weekday attendees. AAA triples its regular $4 discount on Six Flags theme parks tickets to $12 on Wednesdays, while Wet ‘n Wild knocks $30 off the price of its season pass (regularly $80) if you want weekday access only.

 

 

Ticket prices are often 35% cheaper, plus you’ll save time waiting in line. Online-only promotions are also more plentiful this year — because the date-specific tickets let parks estimate headcount, they can cut overhead on slow days, says Robert Niles, editor of ThemeParkInsider.com. Cedar Fair’sflagship Cedar Park launched an online specials section this year, with bargains like an “Amusement Stimulus Package” of four adult tickets for $132 (a $40 discount off the gate price) and a “Pay Once, Visit Twice” deal that gets you an additional day in the park this season for just $10 (a $32 discount). Both offers are available through June 15.

 

 

With lots to see and do — and long lines for everything — aiming to visit multiple parks in one day is overly ambitious for many people, says Danielle Courtnay, a spokeswoman for the Orlando/Orange County Convention & Visitors Bureau. Save with a single park pass for short visits. At Walt Disney World, it’s $45 cheaper than a one-day Park Hopper, while Universal Studios charges $8 less.

 

 

Discounted theme park admission is a common credit-card perk. Check with both your card brand and issuing bank for specials. Through Aug. 31, for example, American Expressoffers $10 off at SeaWorld, Aquatica or Busch Gardens, plus a $10 rebate when you buy through its Going Once site.

 

 

Arrive at the park once the afternoon rush has dispersed, and you can easily save 20% or more with so-called twilight entry passes, says Mandt. Knott’s Berry Farm cuts its $50 ticket price in half after 4 p.m., which gives you four to seven hours in the park. Disneyland charges $43 instead of $56 starting at 4 p.m. or six hours before closing, whichever is earlier.

 

 

Look for coupons on the groceries you buy, and at the restaurants you frequent, urges Ruben. McDonald’sstores in Tennessee, for example, hand out coupons for $1 Wednesday admittance to Chattanooga’s Lake Winnepesaukah Amusement Park (regularly $5). Or bring any Pepsiproduct to Kennywood Amusement Park in Pittsburgh to save $5 on adult admission ($32).

 

 

Passes typically pay for themselves in just two visits, and offer additional value through freebies and special access, says Niles. Six Flags Great Adventure’s $100 season pass includes free passes for a friend on 32 specific dates, free access to 15 other Six Flags parks nationwide and $300 of in-park coupons. The $100 VIP season pass at King’s Dominion provides first-in-line ride access, early entry to the attached water park, half-price deals for friends and free, specially-designated parking.

 

 

Employers, banks, professional organizations and clubs may offer discounts or specially-priced tickets. The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill offers employees $34 tickets to Carowinds (regularly $45), and a $20 discount at Six Flags Over Georgia ($40). Even your driver’s license may be helpful in securing a deal. Walt Disney World offers Florida residents discounts on both daily tickets and annual passes. A three-day park hopper would be about $148 — $100 cheaper than out-of-state visitors pay.

 

My Meez June 22, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — Sylvia @ 3:14 pm
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My favorite blogger, Candy from www.keepingthehome.com has created an avatar of herself on Meez.com.  I must say that it’s so much fun, almost like playing with Barbie dolls.  I created an avatar of myself and you can make one also.  Her is my Meez…Does it look like me? :)

                                    life-of-tree

I needed another child but the selection was limited to two children.  Once you make one you can add me as a friend.  Well have fun…I did!

www.meez.com/life-of-tree

 

Tales from Africa June 20, 2008

Filed under: This And That — Sylvia @ 8:26 pm
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  (beach in Africa)           (picture of South Africa)

(Picture of a beautiful tree in Africa)( Picture of a rainbow and rhinos in Africa)

The last few days have been hectic (but a good kind of hectic).  A friend of mine came for a visit while she is home from Africa.  My dear friend has been doing missions work over in Uganda as a Director of an orphanage.  She looked radiant and had much to tell about her experience in Africa and I was like a sponge, soaking it all in.

She told me how at first she was terrified to eat over there but explained that now she loves the food and is actually scared to eat American food.  My friend said that in Africa everything is fresh and organic unlike the food in American where there is pesticides, steriods, and hormones.  The fruits and vegetables are gathered from the garden daily and juice is squeezed daily for each meal.   I was mesmerized by her descriptions of the country.  Although there is slums and poor people there is moreso beautiful sites and landscapes that are totally breathtaking.  I was so intrigued by her words and her stories that I literally must have asked her dozens of questions.  The thing I was mostly fascinated by was her spiritual growth and how she said that living in Africa without all of the “western” distractions allowed her the opportunity to hear God’s voice clearer and to develop a better relationship with Him.  Although my husband had the opportunity to go to Africa I pray that God will grant my husband and I the opportunity to go there together.

Well I wish I could write more but I am in quite a hurry.  Kids are becoming restless and want their momma’s attention.  God Bless.

Tree 

 

Collard Greens Recipe June 20, 2008

Filed under: Recipes — Sylvia @ 7:58 pm
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Today I thought I could share the recipe to my favorite vegetable in the world.  It is quite simple to make I just really don’t care for cutting greens but thank God there is bagged collard greens that are already cut up.  Enjoy!

                                          

 1 1/2 quarts water
1 teaspoon crushed red pepper
1 1/2 pounds smoked turkey meat
8 pounds collards
2 teaspoons sugar
1/2 cup cider or white vinegar
Salt and pepper
Serving Suggestion: diced raw onions and vinegar

 

Place water in a large pot. Add red pepper and smoked turkey and simmer for about 1 hour while preparing greens.
To prepare greens, discard damaged or yellow parts of leaves. Cut away tough stems from each leaf and wash collards thoroughly until rinse water is clear of dirt or grit. Collard leaves are large and usually require cutting before cooking. To do so, fold leaf in half at its center vein, fold over once or twice, then cut in half with scissors or knife. Add remaining ingredients to bones in boiling water, then add greens. Cover and cook rapidly for about 30 minutes or until greens are tender but firm. Best served with diced raw onions and vinegar.

 

“The Secret” Has Been Told June 17, 2008

Filed under: Spirituality, This And That — Sylvia @ 8:06 pm
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Last night my husband and I watched the video to the book “The Secret.”  We really wanted to know what all the hoopla was about over the book.  Needless to say we watched it and was truly amazed how this so called “Secret” really wasn’t a secret at all.  This “Secret” or power of attraction has been revealed in God’s Word thousands of years before the book was written.  One of the principles of “The Secret” is to ask, believe and receive.  Sounds familiar right! Well, we can find this in the Bible Mark 11:24 “Therefore I say to you, all things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have received them, and they will be granted you.”  Another principle discussed on the video was the concept of negative thoughts and words and how they will produce those negative things in your life and vice versa with positive thoughts and words.  We can also find those same principals in the Word.  Proverbs 18:21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.”  Matthew 12:34-37

34- O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

35-A good man out of the good treasure of the heart bringeth forth good things: and an evil man out of the evil treasure bringeth forth evil things. 

36-But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.

37-For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.

So I’ve come to the conclusion that we (including myself) need ask God to strengthen our belief because we don’t need to read these various books (which are really doctrines) we just need to read “THE BOOK”. The Bible has been proven to be inerrant, sound and true to those who BELIEVE.  Let’s stop acting like the world looking for the newest fad and thrill and lets be flat footed and unwavering so that we can stand on the firm foundation of our faith and be that light that the world is looking for to the glory of God. 

So if you’re looking for the “Secret” here it is…Believe the Word Of God (Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is living and full of power, and is sharper than any two-edged sword, cutting through and making a division even of the soul and the spirit, the bones and the muscles, and quick to see the thoughts and purposes of the heart.

 

20 Tips to Save Money on Gas June 16, 2008

Filed under: Money Matters — Sylvia @ 9:16 pm
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With the astronomical prices of fuel these days, many people have had to tighten their budgets to make room for more spending on gas. However, with the application of some gas -saving tips, you can keep your spending to within a reasonable range, and help save the environment at the same time.

1. Maintain your vehicle. A vehicle that runs smoothly uses less gas than one that is poorly maintained. Regular oil changes, air filter and other recommended maintenance will all help to give you a fuel-efficient vehicle.

2. Keep your tires inflated. Actually, studies have shown that the savings on gas isn’t huge, but it does make a small difference to keep your tires inflated to the recommended pressure. And more importantly, this is also safer and makes your tires last longer.

3. Don’t drive during rush hour. Go to work, and come home from work, either earlier or later if possible, to avoid the rush hour. Getting stuck in a traffic jam, and stop-and-go driving, is one of the worst ways to waste gas.

4. Telecommute. Working from home can save tons in gas, not to mention giving you more time, productivity, and happiness. If you can telecommute even one or two days a week, this can be a substantial savings.

5. Remove weight. Driving with more people, and more stuff in your car, drags the car and requires more fuel. Lighten your load by removing excess cargo.

6. Minimize idling. One of the worst offenders in lowering your gas mileage, idling gets you zero miles per gallon. If you are going to idle for a minute or less, leave your car on, but if it’s going to be much longer than a minute, you should turn off your car.

7. Drive slower. Driving the speed limit is more fuel efficient than speeding.

8. Accelerate and brake easier. Driving too agressively, especially starting fast and braking fast, is bad for fuel economy. Accelerate gently, and try to minimize use of your brakes, if possible.

9. Use higher gears. Driving fast in low gears is bad for fuel economy as well. Drive in as high a gear as possible, unless you’re down-shifting in order to slow down or control speed.

10. Buy a fuel-efficient car. Actually, this is the most important tip on this list. A heavier car wastes gas. Get a lighter car, especially one with a fuel-efficient engine and design. See the federal government’s article on choosing a more efficient vehicle.

11. Roll up windows on highway. While many people think they’re saving money by turning off the air-conditioner, it actually creates a strong drag if you are driving fast with the windows down, and is worse for your fuel economy. If you are driving slow, around town, turn off the air-conditioner and roll down the windows. Roll them up on the highway.

12. Don’t top off. Topping off while you are filling up your tank is a waste of gas, as any gas that you top off will spill or otherwise be wasted.

13. Park in shade. A hot car evaporates gas. If it’s a hot day, park in the shade, and use your garage.

14. Walk. Driving less is a great way to save gas. If you have to make a trip of only a few blocks, try walking instead. You will burn fat instead of gas.

15. Cycle. Many people live close enough to work that they can commute by bike. It’s not hard, and you get exercise while saving money.

16. Live closer to work. Of course, you probably won’t be able to implement this tip today, but the next time you’re considering where to live, try to find a place close to your workplace, or try to find a job closer to your house. It will save a lot of driving.

17. Group errands. Instead of doing one or two errands a day, try to group them all on one day, and plan an efficient route to cut back on driving.

18. Carpool. It’s not usually hard to find friends, family, or neighbors who live in your area and work near you. Take turns driving each other to save gas for all of you.

19. Use cruise control. This method has actually been proven to save a lot of gas, as it reduces heavy acceleration and heavy use of the brake. A steady driving speed will improve fuel economy.

20. Don’t buy hot gas. Buy gas during the morning or evening hours, when it’s cool, or you will be buying gas at a time when it’s expanded (and thus getting less).